How to kiss at a dance

Building and Dancing with Sexual Tension

Let’s talk about creating, dancing, and relaxing in non-verbal sexual tension can building up to getting the first kiss in the most natural, fun, and exciting way possible.

Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in November 2017.

Having a great date or flirty interaction with a woman that results in a kiss, makeout, or more is about understanding how to dance. No, not literal dancing – dancing emotionally. Creating and playing with sexual tension and human connection. When you can truly look deep into someone’s eyes, hold that eye contact, and relax in your body, you’re going to start to feel this tension between you and the other person. Especially with a beautiful woman. You’ve got to be able to actually relax into it though and stay present – stay feeling your body (vs racing in your head about how uncomfortable or scary this is) – or it becomes anxiety, and then you’re not really available to connect with her anymore. And that comes off as very insecure and timid. Insecure and timid isn’t going to make a girl want to kiss you.

If you’re really getting good with women, you should start to enjoy tension (sexual, and otherwise, really) – be able to relax into it, enjoy it, and let yourself really feel it. Tension is like surfing. On a surfboard, you’ve got to be able to feel the movement and tension of the wave and adjust to it. That’s true in almost any sport: If you’re riding motocross, you’ve got to feel the bike, its balance, and the tension there. If you’re skydiving, you can fly through the air by adjusting your body and floating on the wind. Tension is everywhere – it’s also in communication: If you’re doing standup comedy or public speaking, you feel the tension with the audience and you have to bounce off of that and adjust.

When you’re talking to a girl, it’s the same thing. As you’re talking to her, you’re going to feel that tension building between the two of you. Your job is to just step into the tension with her a little bit, hold it, and watch her. She might start to get more nervous, giggle, or look away. Your job is to relax into it. The more you relax into it, are patient, and give her some space without getting in your head to analyze or think a lot, the more she’ll relax. It might take a few seconds, 30 seconds, a minute, but she’ll start to relax. It might even take a few minutes, but just continue to enjoy the moment with her. Talk about whatever little things while holding that tension, because it’s the tension doing almost all of the work. As you step in again: Getting closer, pushing tension a little further, she’s going to start to enjoy it more and more. She’s going to get turned on. She may get nervous again, and your job, again, is to sit and stop right there like a train on a track and just relax a for little bit, let her get comfortable in it, and then move forward again. This is the buildup to kissing her for the first time.

You may find that some girls love tension. You start to push it, and all she does is look at you deeper – get more attracted, more turned on. That means you’re doing really well. Just realize that some girls are even a little better at this than you. Your job there is to relax into the tension even a little more. These women will be the ones who teach you to be more solid as a man.

If you keep working this tension like taffy, and you feel it: the eye contact between you and her, the touches between the two of you; you’re not thinking about it-you’re feeling it…then you two will pull closer and closer together and eventually you’ll kiss her. You just keep feeling, not analyzing or thinking at all, and enjoy that moment.

If you can’t feel sexual tension or tension in general – if you’re not aware of it or it’s confusing – it’s something you can totally learn. Click here to learn about our events so you can start learning about tension: What it is to play and dance with sexual tension.

Because to a woman, the dance of tension is what it’s all about. That’s what she’s looking for when she goes on a date. That’s what she’s looking for when she meets you at a bar. That’s what she’s looking for before she’s going to let you kiss her.

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Kiss and Tell

Galen Hooks and Ne-Yo at the 2010 American Music Awards (Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images)

When Galen Hooks danced with Ne-Yo at the 2010 American Music Awards, they paused mid-routine—and kissed. “It was the first time I had to kiss somebody onstage,” Hooks says. “Not only was it televised, but I was really shy about it!” Plus it was, you know, Ne-Yo.

Performing a passionate duet is one thing—but having to kiss your partner in the middle of the choreography can be awkward and nerve-racking, especially in front of an audience. Read on to see how some of your favorite dancers handled their first onstage kisses.

Galen Hooks

Hooks played two characters in Ne-Yo’s music videos and was on the creative team that choreographed the AMA number. “It was my idea to have the kiss happen,” Hooks admits. “It made sense for the story. When my character kisses him, she goes from being nice to being evil. It was all in fun.”

They didn’t rehearse the kiss during the tech run-through, though. Instead, they stood without making eye contact and waited a few seconds before moving into the next segment. “We only did it on the actual show,” Hooks says. “It was just part of the choreography. There was no romance to it.” Watching the kiss, you’d never guess it was so polite. Ne-Yo grabbed her face and pulled her close. “But there was no tongue or anything!” Hooks laughs. “He’s a true gentleman—very respectful.”

Tiffany Maher and Cole Horibe in Mia Michaels’ routine for the Top 14 on “So You Think You Can Dance” Season 9 (Adam Rose)

Tiffany Maher

Tiffany Maher, runner-up on “So You Think You Can Dance” Season 9, calls her first onstage kiss—in the Top 14 routine choreographed by Mia Michaels—her “Spiderman kiss”: Cole Horibe hung upside down, spinning, while Maher swung by a rope attached to her wrist. “I had to grab him and smack his lips to mine,” she says. “In rehearsal, we’d smack heads, or I’d end up kissing his nose, or he’d end up kissing my eyeball.” Plus, Maher and Horibe weren’t star-crossed (spinning) lovers: “He’s like my brother,” she says. “It was the hardest kiss of my life!”

Bret Shuford with Andrea Marcovicci in Lady in the Dark (courtesy Bret Shuford)

Bret Shuford

As Prince Eric in The Little Mermaid, Broadway veteran Bret Shuford kissed Ariel countless times onstage. But his first professional kiss happened years before in a regional theater production of Lady in the Dark, featuring cabaret star Andrea Marcovicci. Shuford played Marcovicci’s high school sweetheart and had to kiss her during a flashback scene. “She’s twice my age,” says Shuford, who was 22 at the time. “When we got to that part, I was supposed to be the one kissing her,” he remembers, “but she was the one kissing me! I just went with it. ”

Peter Chu in Dark Matters (Eric Beauchesne/Kidd Pivot)

Peter Chu

Peter Chu was going over his choreography before the premiere of Crystal Pite’s Dark Matters at the National Arts Centre in Canada. Pite, who was also his partner for the work’s last duet, gave him a note. “By the way,” she said, “I think you should kiss me.”

Chu was so nervous that he ran back to his dressing room and started practicing the kiss on the back of his hand, all the time worrying that someone was going to walk in on him. “It’s a beautiful show with amazing dancers,” he says, “but I was more stressed about how to kiss her! You don’t want to bump teeth or anything.” So how did it go during the performance? “It was a passionate, desirable kiss,” Chu says. “Very honest.”

Lauren Gottlieb and Dominic Sandoval performing their rumba on “So You Think You Can Dance” (KELSEY MCNEAL/FOX)

Lauren Gottlieb

On Season 3 of “SYTYCD,” Lauren Gottlieb and Dominic Sandoval wowed the crowd with their rumba. But it wasn’t their dancing that got all the attention—it was their kiss (the first ever on the show)! “When we practiced it in front of the choreographers, they flipped out,” Gottlieb says. “They thought it was way too much.”

Gottlieb and Sandoval decided to run with it. “We went for the shock factor,” Gottlieb says. “But I was young—19—and my boyfriend and whole extended family were in the audience!” Gottlieb was also overwhelmed by the millions of people watching at home. Her nerves caused an awkward moment at the end when they were both breathing so hard their lips came apart. “He tried to go back in and my head was moving away,” she says.

The Juliets
|For some ballerinas, the first onstage kiss is a gentle peck on the lips in

The Sleeping Beauty
or an innocent smooch in La Fille mal gardée. But these ballet dancers were thrown into the deep end, having to bring the passion in Romeo and Juliet.

Carla Körbes with former Pacific Northwest Ballet principal Lucien Postlewaite in Roméo et Juliette (Angela Sterling)

Carla Körbes

In Jean-Christophe Maillot’s Roméo et Juliette, Pacific Northwest Ballet principal Carla Körbes has to do more than just kiss her partner. “There’s a section where we’re rolling around in bed kissing,” Körbes says. “Then we go under the covers.” She and her partner, Lucien Postlewaite, rehearsed it in the studio so they wouldn’t feel awkward later. “It was more like acting than a ballet kiss,” she says. “It felt like a movie experience.”

Luckily for Körbes, what shows on film doesn’t always show onstage. “The first time, my nose was kind of running and I was crying during the second act,” she says. “We were kissing and all of a sudden there was snot everywhere! At that point we didn’t know what was happening, but when we got offstage, we were dying laughing.”

Sterling Hyltin and Robert Fairchild in Peter Martins’ Romeo + Juliet (Paul Kolnik)

Sterling Hyltin

“When you’re doing something like Romeo + Juliet, everything from an arabesque to the kiss is full of meaning,” says Sterling Hyltin, a principal with New York City Ballet. Hyltin was 21 when Peter Martins choreographed the tragic love story for her and NYCB’s Robert Fairchild.

“I didn’t know if he would kiss me in rehearsals,” she says. “But it happened from the get-go. It was happening in the music, so that’s what we did.” Six years later, Hyltin says she and Fairchild save the kiss for the stage. “All that matters is the moment,” Hyltin says. “If you really believe what you’re doing, there’s nothing strange about kissing somebody you don’t kiss in real life.”

Victoria Jaiani in After the Rain (Herbert Migdoll)

Victoria Jaiani

At 18, Victoria Jaiani danced her first Juliet with Joffrey Ballet. “They hired Jason Reilly, then a principal from Stuttgart Ballet, to come dance with me,” she says. “He was an incredible partner and everything worked out well, even though we only had a few days to rehearse before we got onstage.”

The first time they rehearsed full-out in the studio, Jaiani felt comfortable. “You get so involved and live in the moment,” she says. “It felt natural to kiss him. It would’ve been weird not to. I wanted to be kissed.” Jaiani remembers the first show, at the end of the balcony scene, when her Romeo unexpectedly gave her an extra goodnight kiss. “I was surprised because we hadn’t rehearsed it that way,” she says. “It just happened.”

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There are kisses - like free dreams,

Blissfully bright, to the point of frenzy.

There are kisses - cold as snow.

Kisses are like an insult...

This is how Balmont wrote about kisses more than 100 years ago. There is no single answer to the question “how to kiss properly”, just as there is no person the same as you. There are always two components in this process: your skill and your attitude towards the one you kiss. Everyone will figure out the attitude for himself, but we will help you to gain the ability to kiss correctly.

Training and more training will only make you a kissing guru. Do not "shame" at the first kiss, charm an experienced partner - is this your goal?

Then train!

A heavy sigh escapes your chest: “Where can I train? Not on the object of passion? Of course not. Looking ahead a little, let's hint - for this you can use a little Slavic trick. But first, you still have to study the theory of how to kiss correctly. The materiel must be mastered at 5, so that the practice has a good foundation.

So, theory.

Let's proceed from the fact that we are interested in how to kiss correctly with the help of lips alone, without the participation of the tongue, that is, in the classic version. Having mastered this gentle kiss, you will cross the border of constraint and gain freedom for further experiments.

First of all, remember that a beautiful kiss requires just as much foreplay as good sex. Everything that immediately precedes the kiss must be carefully prepared: you yourself, your chosen one, the right place, time and environment.

1. The first thing to watch out for is the kissing instrument itself, that is, your lips. The chosen one should be pleased with their touch. Therefore, it is necessary to avoid chapping and drying of the lips, which will be greatly helped by various moisturizing balms. It is better to use them constantly for prevention, but the balm can eliminate the existing problem in almost 1 day. Lips should be healthy, colds on the lips and cracks in the corners of the mouth can be the main reason why a person does not want to kiss you. If there is no fantasy and grandmother's recipes in the treatment of lips, then the simplest remedy "Zovirax" will help you perfectly.

2. We don't know if it's worth mentioning, but it's very important to have fresh breath and pleasant body odour. Having missed this moment from attention, you can generally be left without a kiss. Remember the aphorism: "A kiss with a smoking woman is the same as a kiss with an ashtray." However, this also applies to smokers.

3. If you intend to kiss someone, then first let your chosen one be imbued with confidence in you. You should be open and friendly, talk in a measured manner, smile more often and look your partner in the face. Gestures will also tell a lot about your location: no crossed arms and legs, open palms, smooth movements.

4. Next, we begin to “hack” the touch barrier. You need to gradually accustom your partner to your touches so that they do not cause him embarrassment and desire to move away. This must be done gradually, for example, move a strand of hair from his face, unobtrusively touch his hand, hold his elbow, put on a sweater or jacket, and only then lightly hug him. The main thing is to do all this without focusing your attention, like ordinary movements that go without saying for you, calmly and smoothly. By the way, the best way to get past the touch barrier is to ask someone to dance.

5. Now let's talk about how to kiss properly. You successfully passed the “prelude” stage, chose the right moment and . .. Tilt your head towards your chosen one so that your lips eventually touch. Your lips should be relaxed and slightly elongated. To fully concentrate on the sensations in the lip area, close your eyes at the first touch. It is very important to give a kiss with feeling: put your soul into it. The soul is something that rises from the chest and is pressed in your lips to the lips of a partner. Gently kiss your partner's lower or upper lip with both lips, briefly, just a couple of seconds. After that, lean back so that the distance from yours to his lips remains four centimeters. And now it is very important to see the reaction to your kiss. Gently open your eyes and assess the situation. Looking into the eyes of your chosen one, you will accurately guess whether to stop or continue. A straight look or a smile, a shadow of embarrassment and a look away is a green light for you. If the partner looks clearly dissatisfied and the facial features “grimaced”, then it is obvious that the kiss was inappropriate and unpleasant for the person.

6. When the kiss is "to your taste" - you can continue: kiss the partner's lower, then upper lip and let them do the same with your lips. Such a gentle soft kiss is the classic version, it can last as long as you both want. Most often, he smoothly transitions to a more passionate French kiss with the participation of the tongue.

From theory to practice

First of all, one of the most pleasant ways to kiss is the “dance kiss”. The closeness of the bodies, pleasant music, the subdued light of the dance floor, the fleeting touches of cheeks and lips - all this excites and makes you want more. In a public place, kisses can only be implicit and therefore even more provocative: gently and fleetingly touch the partner's ear, cheek, or chin. Whoever is brave and insightful can do such a “manoeuvre” with an unfamiliar partner, but still this “electric” option is more suitable for an already established couple.

So we digress. Our advice will be very original. The practice of kissing can be obtained quite legally, and furnish this business in a fun and interesting way. Through dance.

Yes, yes, don't be surprised. The Romanians, Bulgarians, Moldavians, Ukrainians and other Slavic peoples have an excellent means for this - the dance of Peryanitsa. Moreover, this is not an ancient guest at all, but a fun entertainment that is practiced with pleasure even today.

To dance Peryanitsa, you need to gather a large company for a round dance. It will take quite a long (10-15 minutes) melodic smooth music and a few scarves. Most of the participants in the dance, holding hands, move in a circle with a cross step (right, left), vaguely reminiscent of steps in sirtaki. Inside the circle, several people with headscarves randomly walk around. Those who are inside the circle are lucky, they choose a mate (“victim”, “object”) of the opposite sex and point to it with a wave of a handkerchief. The chosen couple goes to the center of the round dance, both kneel on a spread handkerchief and kiss. There can be two options for a kiss: 3 kisses on the cheeks or 1 on the lips (classic or French). Then the participants change places: the “victim” takes the scarf and goes for a walk in a circle, looking for a new pair, and the “walker” takes her place in the round dance. Depending on the size of the company, there may be one or several couples in the circle. This dance game is to the taste of literally everyone. In a fun environment, the question of how to kiss correctly will not even arise, but the practice will be very useful. Peryanitsa helps to remove the barrier of shyness, one such dance is enough to relieve shyness before kisses in general, and before the first kiss in particular. This is a great way to "practice" everything you've learned about kissing in theory.

In Russian folklore, there is a similar round dance game "Pillow". Its essence is about the same, only pillows are used instead of scarves, and the couple is selected for general singing on the words “I’ll put it on my knees, I’ll make you kiss”.

It is easier to adapt Peryanitsa to modern reality. People of any age participate in such entertainment with great enthusiasm. Dance can be presented as a fun contest at any holiday, party with friends, wedding, birthday, corporate party. That is, there are plenty of reasons, the main thing is that a sufficiently large company gathers. Dancing Peryanitsa, you can kiss with friends and relatives, colleagues and strangers in general. Here, no couple will get away: stood up in a round dance - get ready for a kiss. And it is quite possible that in this big and cheerful round dance there will be the very person for whom you are looking for the answer to the question “How to kiss?”.

And remember, the initiative is punishable, starting Perenitsa in a circle of friends, be sure that you will be pushed into the circle among the first))).

Let's find out how to kiss with the tongue correctly?

A kiss is a dance of the whole body, as well as the contact of two souls. This type of art can be mastered by anyone. A kiss can completely absorb a couple in love and capture with a rush of passion. Hugs and kisses are inextricably linked with each other, as they create a special atmosphere of tenderness and intimacy.

A kiss as a sacrament

The period of youth is filled with the most pure and unforgettable feelings. The surrounding reality is perceived exclusively through the prism of love and romance. This is a great time to build personal relationships. It was during this period that young people begin to be interested in the question of how to kiss correctly. The ability to kiss is an integral part of a romantic relationship. At a certain period of time, the question creeps into the head of young people: "How to kiss and how to learn it?"

The first kiss will demonstrate the characteristics of partners and reveal many character traits. It is important for a girl to create an image of a passionate and liberated person. It is important to feel the line between ease and vulgarity. A kiss should convey affection and tenderness, as it forms a general impression of the girl's sexual behavior. Therefore, in order for first impressions to leave indelible memories, you need to know how to kiss with the tongue correctly. A French kiss is perceived as a transfer of relations to a qualitatively different level. Partners thus hint at a deep spiritual and physical intimacy.

Young people's first kiss

A good kiss requires some preparation. The combination of the right technique and emotionality will create favorable conditions for an unforgettable kiss. According to him, the girl can accurately understand the intentions of the young man and determine the further development of the relationship. Therefore, the kiss must be impeccable in execution.

Girls are very sensitive creatures, so the first kiss should be filled with tenderness. You can start with gentle and soft movements of the lips. Gradually, you can increase the pressure and pressure on the partner's mouth. It is important to stop and make light touches to the hair and back. It is necessary to make periodic suspensions for swallowing saliva and exhaling. In this case, the lips should be as relaxed and soft as possible.

Types of kisses

The French are considered the most consummate lovers, so they perfected the kissing technique to perfection. Therefore, in the question of how to kiss correctly, the French are real professionals.

There are many skillful ways and variations of kissing. Among them are the following:

Classic kiss. Contact with partner's lips under slight pressure.
Inato. A long and tender kiss without a tongue.
French. The most popular kiss, which is characterized by a special passion and use of the tongue.
Kiss lips. Perfect with inato and french kiss. One of the partners grabs the lower lip and makes sucking movements. The tongue can move along the lower lip. Gentle and accurate biting is performed periodically.
Eskimo. This species is rather difficult to categorize as kisses, since its essence lies in rubbing noses. The Eskimo Kiss is a great choice for shy people.

Important rules for girls

The question of how to kiss a guy properly worries many girls. First of all, it is necessary to discard all internal fears and doubts. The inner mood and emotional state is important. Self-confidence will give strength and allow you to tune in to a romantic mood. Girls have a fine mental organization, so they feel their partner perfectly. This is exactly what is needed for the first and unforgettable kiss. There is no clear algorithm of actions on how to kiss a guy correctly. Of great importance is the emotional component and desire. So that nothing could overshadow this romantic and exciting moment, you should adhere to the following rules:0005

Personal hygiene, in particular, high-quality cleaning of the oral cavity.
Use of light gloss or lip care products.
It is better not to eat dishes seasoned with onions and garlic.
After eating, chew gum or rinse your mouth thoroughly.

Important rules for young people

If a young man is new to kissing a girl, it is important to know some of the nuances of female psychology. The fair sex fall in love with the attitude towards themselves. The young man should make every effort at the time of courtship. If the chosen one feels desired and loved, then the question of how to kiss a girl for the first time will not cause anxiety.

If a girl has experienced a French kiss, then the young man should not worry. Mutual sympathy and deep feelings are the basis of a sensual kiss. There are a few basic rules for young people that will help reduce anxiety and prepare for this important event.

Maintain personal hygiene and use mouth refreshers.
First take care of the condition of the skin of the lips.
One should not use physical force in a fit of passion.
Creating a favorable environment.
Use of tender words.

A kiss is a pleasure that a young couple gives to each other, so it is important to monitor the partner's reaction.

Kissing for the first time

Kissing is the main expression of love and sympathy. The first kiss plays an important role in the development of further relationships. Prolonged thinking, lack of initiative and indecision will lead to tension between partners. Therefore, the question arises about how to kiss correctly and leave a lasting impression in the partner’s memory about this event.

At the first kiss, a couple in love is overwhelmed with a whole gamut of feelings. There is a feeling of lack of air and trembling in the legs. An unforgettable kiss is possible only under the condition of maximum relaxation. It is very important to breathe evenly through the nose. Tension and nervous state can go to the partner. Such a state is not conducive to romance, since the partner will feel a negative emotional intensity.

Therefore, to the question of how to kiss a guy for the first time, there is only one correct answer - to completely relax. A kiss brings a lot of positive emotions. During a kiss, the hormone of happiness is produced. This fact can calm young girls who are faced with the question of how to kiss a guy for the first time and leave a lasting impression. On an intuitive level, lovers feel and know each other's desires. Also, the technique of the right kiss will be prompted by feelings.

Tongue kissing technique

Compliance with all the rules leads to the climax. Once a couple in love is in close proximity, decisive action should be taken. Intuition can tell you how to kiss a guy with a tongue correctly.

A sensual touch on the lips of a partner will cause incredible sensations. This can be called a kind of prelude before a real French kiss. Then you can gently run your tongue over your partner's lips. The young man will regard this movement as a call to action and open his lips.

During a passionate kiss, it is important to remember other sensual places in the body. The kiss will acquire special and exciting notes if the girl gently runs her hands over her partner's back. The earlobes are an erogenous zone in young people, so you can sensually walk along them with your fingers.

Girls may show certain pranks when kissing a young man. For example, you can very gently make biting movements of the partner's lips and tongue.

Non-standard ways of kissing

It is believed that a young man should take the initiative and be the first to kiss a girl. Before this important event, the most exciting moment comes when the partners look into each other's eyes. Both should be ready for a deep kiss, so it's best to start with the usual touch of the lips.

Partners need to relax their lips and open them slightly. It is important to touch each other, hug and not be afraid to move. You can change the position of the hands and the whole body. The prelude can last for several seconds. By the reaction of a partner, you can determine his emotional and physical state. Active movements and a smile are signs that the partner is ready for a deep French kiss.

The partner can squeeze the partner's lips tighter and gently run the tongue over the lips. Then you should go to the tip of the tongue and sensually touch it. Pleasant touches should turn into smooth and circular movements.

In the event that a couple in love has moved to a new level of relationship, and the excitement before the first kiss has long passed, you can complicate the technique. A detailed study of the partner's mouth and teasing tongue movements will deliver an indescribable feeling. Such playful movements can be alternated with a classic kiss.

The use of tasty additives will add a special piquancy. By grabbing strawberries with his lips, the partner can pass it to another. Delicious sensations will deliver a kiss with smeared lips in chocolate. Any experimentation that is acceptable for a couple would be welcome.

Kissing is not a difficult algebra problem that can be solved in only one way. This is an amazing and exciting game that you can diversify. Among the most popular methods are the following:0005

Mill. The game is based on the rotational movements of partners' tongues.
Bee stinger. The love game begins with gentle sucking of the lips, which suddenly turns into an active phase, during which the tongue penetrates the partner's mouth.
Butterfly. During the game, the tip of the tongue gently touches the sky and tickles it.
"Royal". When kissing, the tongue slips over the partner's teeth, but does not penetrate deep.

How to properly prepare for a tongue kiss

Make eye contact before moving on to the tongue kiss. Slowly approaching the lips will increase the desire of partners and create the right mood. As the lips approach, it is necessary to gradually close the eyelids. At this moment, a couple in love will feel a pleasant sensation spreading through the body. This state is transmitted to each other at a subtle level.

During the kiss, you should relax as much as possible and do not hold your breath. The head should be tilted in the opposite direction from the partner's head. The movements of the lips during a kiss are similar to the movement of the girth of ice cream. In this case, the upper lip of the partner should be located between the lips of the other. The position of the lips and head can be changed depending on the desire and intensity.

A kiss can be tender only when the lips are completely relaxed. It is not recommended to stick the tongue deep into the partner, as this is inconvenient. Depending on the reaction of the partner, you can vary the speed of the kiss and the depth of penetration of the tongue.

How to end a kiss

The end of a kiss causes the same disturbing and exciting feelings as the first anticipation. At this point, the movements of the lips should be especially soft. By reducing the intensity of the kiss and making slower movements, you can start kissing your partner without using your tongue. Touches to each other gradually become short-term and slowly end.

The first kiss should not turn into intimate caresses. The remaining aftertaste should arouse even greater desire among partners. The first kiss will be a memorable event that will leave pleasant memories. The right technique will only come with a partner you can fully trust. A loved one is able to give a wonderful experience that will bring great pleasure.

The most common mistakes

Among the most common mistakes made by beginners are the following:

Too active and erratic movements. Uncontrolled and chaotic movements will only lead to a premature cessation of the kiss.
Deep tongue penetration into partner's mouth. This movement can cause discomfort and lead to suspension.
Intense biting of lips and tongue.
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