How to receive a lap dance

How To Get The Best Lap Dance

Over the last 30 years, I’ve seen lots of lap dances.  Some are better than others.  The bad ones are usually the fault of the customer.  Here are my tips for how to get the best lap dance.

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People ask how to sit for a lap dance.  Just sit down and let the stripper tell you how to sit, how far to lean back, whether to slide lower in the seat, how far to open your legs and all that.  The dancer will give the best lap dance when she feels comfortable. She’s done thousands of these.  She knows what is sexiest.  She knows what you want. She wants you to enjoy yourself so you pay for more. Allowing her to tell you how to sit insures that you get her best sexiest performance.


In many clubs around the country no touching is allowed; men are required to sit on their hands.  Not in Vegas. YOU CAN AND SHOULD TOUCH DURING LAP DANCE IN VEGAS.  Here’s a great post on how much touching is allowed.  Here’s how to touch during a lap dance.

Go Slow: You aren’t some horny teenager parking in your parent’s car. Remember the old song by the Pointer Sisters about wanting a man with slow hands and an easy touch?  That’s what you should do when getting a lap dance.  Put your hands on her waist.  Slowly touch the small of her back.  Gently trace her spine.  Slide your fingers towards her butt.  Move a hand to her ribs, then her tummy. Gently cup her breast.  Don’t pinch her nipples unless she asks you to do so.  Don’t put her breasts in your mouth unless she rubs her nipples on your lips. Even then, go slowly and be gentle.  Pay attention to her response.  She will resist or encourage you to move forward. By the way, everything I say here about going slowly with the touching during a lap dance also applies to your interactions with non-strippers as well.

Going slowly accomplishes a multitude of important things.  It communicates you are a confident self-controlled man.  It communicates that you know how to touch a woman.  This helps her trust you, and with all women, including strippers, trust increases sexual responsiveness.  Going slowly both gives her time to stop you and makes it less likely she will do so.

I’m friends with many Vegas strippers and have dated some dancers over the years.  They are women, they get aroused.  Some enjoy lap dances much more than others.  Some are just into the performance and put on a great act. On rare occasion, though, they are into you and do get turned on.  I’ve had dancers kiss and make out with me–very rare but it does happen.  I even had a dancer once get frustrated that I was going to slowly and demand, “Suck my tits.”


Never try to touch her genitals.  Don’t try to slide a finger inside her G-String.  Vegas Laws allow you to get to second base.  Enjoy second base, but don’t be an idiot and get thrown out of the club for trying to steal third.  You don’t want the dancer to stop in the middle of the dance and stomp off telling every dancer in the club that you are creepy.  You want her to enjoy grinding on you and dancing for you.  You want her to enjoy your touch and reward you by giving you a sexier dance and allowing you to touch even more.

I’m embarrassed to have to include this next sentence but people google search for this and have even asked us about it on the phone, so here goes. NO, you are not going to put money inside a stripper’s vagina so don’t ask.

Yes I want you to touch me, but don’t be an idiot.


Believe it or not, there are pervert forums on the internet which talk about the best type of pants to wear for a lap dance.  They focus on how you can get the most contact of your penis to the stripper without removing your clothes. The consensus is men should wear sweat pants, track suits or gym shorts of some type.  Several years ago every dancer I knew in Vegas thought this was creepy and almost all of them refused to approach customers danced this way.  No woman wants to be close to a man who goes to the strip club hoping to shoot a load in his pants. DISGUSTING.


The dress code for Vegas strip clubs is casual, but they don’t allow gym shorts or sweat pants.  Wear Jeans or slacks. Dress like a man who knows how to handle himself in public.


If you want the best most high contact lap dance, take your car keys, your cell phone. etc out of your front pockets. The dancer doesn’t want to grind on anything sharp or painful. And since you want her to grind on you, you don’t want those things in your pocket.


You’ll get the best lap dance if you not only like the look of the dancer, but also like her attitude and personality.  So, take the time to look around the club. Find a dancer or two you like and then watch them on stage.  Watch them give a lap dance for another customer. You want a girl who puts her legs around your shoulders and her crotch in your face during a lap dance?  Then look for a dancer who is doing that. Talk to her. Listen to her.  Connect a little.  After all, lap dancing is a social interaction as well as a physical one.  Choose well and you will have a great experience.


Shower before going to the strip club and have fresh breath.  Be polite and flirty at the same time.  Focus on having fun and seeing what happens not on picking up the stripper or meeting your next girlfriend.  Show some conversation and social skills. Don’t be vulgar.  Even when rejecting a dancer you don’t like, tell her what you are looking for.  She will send the type you seek and you want her to tell that dancer you were courteous even though you weren’t interested in her.



How to Give and Receive An Authentic, Vulnerable and Sexy Lap Dance – Bodybinds

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Ooh La La The first time I heard Ooh La La by Goldfrapp it pulled me out of my desk chair to dance because my hips couldn’t resist the pulsating beat. A week later I had a blissful experience with it in my pole dance class. I glowed. It felt like my body absorbed Alison Goldfrapp’s silky voice and the song’s beat and slowly released the vibrations from within all afternoon. That evening I decided to give my husband, Brian, his first lap dance. Before I could chicken out I said, “I want to dance for you, ok?” “Sure, yeah!” he nodded, “What do I have to do?”

“Just sit in the red chair. ” I pointed to the leather club chair in the front corner of our living room. “And keep your hands to yourself.” I changed into a red silk chemise. Then stood just out of view. “Hit play on the iPod when you’re ready, honey.” I’d already cued up Ooh La La by Goldfrapp and Where Life Begins by Madonna. As soon as I felt the familiar beat I sashayed the few steps to the doorway of the living room and paused when I knew he could see me. He cheered and whistled. As I stepped into the living room and felt Brian’s gaze intently on me, I got nervous. I sat on the arm of our couch, across the room from him. I lay back onto the cushions while slowly prancing my legs in the air. I tilted my head to peek at him because he’d grown quiet. I felt awkward and exposed though he seemed mesmerized. I remembered to breathe. Then noticed how smooth my calves felt as I rubbed them together. This reconnected me with the sexy vibrancy I’d felt all day. I slithered to the floor and moved in ways that felt good and familiar. But I didn’t get out of my head like I had in class. I was too aware of being watched. He’d never seen me move like this, so overtly sensual. My butt was on full view, hips circling, chest pressed to the floor. Then I sat up and arched back savoring a full body stretch while I caressed myself from cheek to chest to hip. I wondered what effect it was having on him. Eventually, I crawled slowly towards Brian in the chair. As I tried to slip my knee between his, I discovered there wasn’t enough room. Our chair was smaller than the one in class. I used the arm of the chair instead, but it felt odd. I sat sideways in his lap, caressed my smooth leg, nuzzled his neck then slid to the floor on my knees where I slowly stripped out of my chemise. It felt so intense and intimate. Like the dial had been turned from 10 to 100. I liked it, but it was scary too. I felt so vulnerable. We didn’t have a pole for me to retreat to so after a bit more dancing I kissed him signaling the end of the dance and the “don’t touch” rule.


Tips For Giving a Lap Dance

While this first lap dance was good, over the years I’ve learned how to make the experience even more fun and enticing for both of us. 1. Spontaneous or Scheduled? While I’ve tried both, I prefer spontaneity to take advantage of being in the mood to dance. Consider what’s best for you. If it’s for a special occasion, plan it for some time during the week or weekend rather than at a preset time in order to go with the flow of how you’re feeling. 2. Improvised or Choreographed? Choreography keeps me in my head. Improvisation enables me to be in the moment. If you need structure, ‘map’ out of how you want to move through the room. If you prefer choreography, practice it on an empty chair or even with a girlfriend so you don’t fret about forgetting what comes next. Even if you do skip something, he won’t know. 3. Choose Music That Turns You On Choose music that you can’t resist moving to. Choose music that he also enjoys. My music was great the first time. Another time I chose a song I adored, but it was too much like hip-hop for his taste. Have at least two songs or an entire playlist so you can dance for as long as you like. This also enables you to include at least one song you know he’ll love.4. Wear What Feels Luscious Wear clothes that feel good and luscious and that isn’t too complicated to strip out of (if you plan to strip out of an outfit) Experiment because it’s easy to get tangled up in clothing; it’s helpful to practice surrendering rather than fighting this when it happens. Messy and tangled can be super hot, as long as you don’t let it irk you. Unless being irritated makes you feel sexy. 5. Caress Your Body This tells him where to look. And will drive him crazy because he’ll wish he were the one doing the touching. It also sends the message that you adore your body, which can be a major turn-on for you both. 6. Power of GazeEye contact is intimate. It can make you feel vulnerable and powerful. When I danced for my husband the first time I didn’t fully understand how to wield the power. One way is to hold his gaze while you dance and show off different body parts. He’ll be drawn to look at your swaying hips or prancing legs, but won’t be ‘allowed’ while you maintain eye contact. Add touch to heighten the experience. Hold his gaze while letting your hands roam down your own body. When you look at your hands caressing your calf, you give him permission to do the same. It can be intoxicating. If you feel shy and coy, it’s also fine and fun to look away or hide your gaze behind clothing, a hat, your hair or other furniture in the room. 7. Own Your Sexy Instead of thinking things like “I wonder what affect this is having on him?” like I did that first time, send him sexy messages that he’ll receive through your movement. “Aren’t my curves sexy,” as your hand traces them from cheek, to neck, over breast, belly and hip. When feeling like a flirty temptress, “I know you want me, but you can’t have me…. Yet.” As a lioness on the hunt, “I’m insatiable for you, here I come…”

Tips for Receiving a Lap Dance by Brian Faulkner

1. Respect the Woman in Front of YouRealize that what she’s doing is sharing a part of herself that she doesn't share with the rest of the world. Consider yourself lucky to be with such an amazing woman. Revel in it. Before the dance, in a casual way, ask your wonderful partner if there are any dos and don'ts for what you do while she dances.  For example:  Can you touch? Can you enthusiastically yell, whistle, applaud, scream, jump up and down? Can you take pictures? Whatever rules she sets, follow them. Because, if you don’t she may never dance for you again.If your willpower is weak, ask her to tie your wrists together (or one arm to each thigh) so you can’t touch. Put tape over your mouth if you can’t resist hooting. 2. Enjoy the Experience Sit, relaxed and ready to receive. Turn your phone OFF (unless she wants you to record her dance). Watch her dance in front of you, around you, and on you. Make eye contact with her. Whistle, hoot, clap (if allowed). Show her how much you appreciate her efforts in ways she understands. 3. Complement Her After the dance is over, be positive and complementary. Don't compare what you saw with anything from prior experiences or your imagination. Tell her how amazing she is and what you loved about her dance. Take her in your arms and hold her tight. The rest is up to the both of you.

Have you ever given a lap dance? Have you ever received one? What was your experience like and what tips would you add for the giver and the receiver?

Lisa Faulkner is the passionate + playful pole dancing professor. She also writes for PDBloggers and Bad Kitty. Come learn and play with her at

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Requires the Get to Work extension.

Start a new strip club business! Set the stage, hire seductive dancers, turn on the music and watch the money flow!

Creators involved

Thanks to these amazing creators who helped bring this feature to life with 23 new custom animations for Pole Dancing, Spot Dancing and Lap Dancing. I really hope that you appreciate their work and support their efforts.

Lupobianco Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
Azmodan22 Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
ooOLaLa World Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
Mike24 Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
Zorak Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
wild_guy Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
Anarcis Animations - Patreon , LoversLab
Thanks to Noir and Dark Sims for helping me create the Dancing Pole object.
Noir and Dark Sims - Patreon ,
Blog And thanks to Nolan-Sims for designing the strip club icon.
Nolan-Sims - Tumblr, Twitter

Starting a business
Create a brand new strip club business. Similar to retail stores, restaurants, and veterinary clinics, set aside a lot for your strip club business and build it from the ground up. Just take out your phone and buy a club!

Strip clubs are not a type of venue, you need to use your phone or computer to purchase them.

Build a strip club
Business strip clubs have no requirements, you can build it however you want, but some objects are required for certain functions. Consider locating conventional strip clubs such as the Drinks Bar, Dancing Poles/Seats and Dancing and Viewing Seats, and Additional Seats in private lap dance venues.

You can build your club however you want, but the Dancing Pole and Dancing Spot objects require extra attention. Once you decide where you want your dancers to dance and place the Dancing Pole or Dancing Roller there, keep the comfort of your customers in mind as well. Each customer is looking for a place to take a seat as soon as they start watching the dancers, so be sure to place several seats around each dance pole and dance area.

It is not necessary for each hired dancer to purchase a Dancing Pole or Dancing Spot, as they will be busy with other tasks such as Bartending and Charming.

Tip: If you've built a stage for your dancers, it's a good idea to isolate it in such a way that clients don't climb on it instead of looking for a place. If the club is built in a way that makes it difficult to find a suitable spot to watch the dancers, this can lead to customers being placed in undesirable locations.

Strip club management
All management functions are controlled from a special club management category on your phone. Including designing employee clothing, working after hours, and viewing financial reports. You can even hire yourself as a dancer in your own club.

Your club is set by default to open at 19:00 (19:00) and close at 4:00 (04:00), as these are the busiest hours for strip clubs. You can set the opening hours by using your phone and clicking "Manage Opening Hours" in the "Striptease Club" category. You can open your club at any time by choosing the same opening and closing hours.

Employment of dancers has no restrictions, except that they can no longer have a job. You are allowed to hire up to 6 dancers (unless they are distributed via cheats) and assign them to any tasks you want during business hours. If you want to work in your own club, then the "Employ Yourself as a Dancer" option will do so if you have an available job and your Sim is not working somewhere else.

Hint: the menu with available recruitable sims can be expanded to display more options with the command "ww.set_stripclub_employee_pool_size < amount >". And you can increase the number of dancers you can hire to 12 using the command "ww.set_dancers_employee_limit < amount >".

When hiring a dancer, pay attention to their skills. Dancers with a good charisma skill will do better in charming clients. Dancers with a high mixology skill will be able to offer the best drinks that increase profits. And dancers with high fitness skill, one of the nudity skills and dancing will be better in "Stage Dance".

All hired dancers define your club type based on their gender and preferences, allowing you to create a regular club, a gay club, or a mixed club. This affects which customers will visit your place. Carefully selecting your employees will prevent certain clients from appearing.

Dancers hired at your club will perform one of three main tasks: Stage Dancing, Bartending, or Charming Clients. Each task can be assigned manually, or you can let the dancers decide for themselves depending on the current situation in the club. Micromanaging or helping yourself will increase the performance of your club, but dancers are fully capable of doing everything themselves.

To assign a task, click on the Dancer employee and select the "Assign Task" option in the Strip Club category. When playing as a dancer, simply start a specific task to automatically jump to it.

Stage Dancing and Viewing
Dancers with the Stage Dancing task will search for a nearby or designated Dancing Pole or Dancing Spot. Each dance program is randomly generated and can be changed at any time by clicking on a dancer. Stage dancers are one of the main reasons clients visit the club, so make sure you always have at least one on stage.

Every dancer on stage attracts the attention of customers who are willing to pay to see some impressive moves. Dance performance is the main factor that determines the amount of customer attention and the amount of advice a dancer receives. The main elements that contribute to a dance performance are dance skills, relationships with certain clients, and currently playing music. If a dancer is performing poorly, you will most likely notice uncontrollable yawns.

The better the skills and relationships with clients, the higher the performance, which directly affects how often and how often dancers receive advice. The more advice the dancer receives, the less clothes on the body.

Good performance is nothing when it doesn't last long enough Dancer, fitness, striptease and dance skills are a major factor in their duration. Each dance routine aims to last as long as possible, so once the dancer is done, they need a few minutes to rest. This obviously doesn't stop them from talking to customers and offering lap dances.

Tip: Dancing Spot Marker is used as an alternative to the dancing pole. It offers a brand new set of dances that do not include the pole dance. Dancers dancing on the Dancing Spot marker are free to move their bodies as they wish. In addition, Dancing Spot Marker comes with an invisible swatch that is hidden in live mode but still clickable. Try it!

Dancing pillars created by Azmodan22, Noir and MJ95 are supported by default.
Pole or seat dancing is available outside of strip clubs and allows you to develop the striptease skill.

Bartender and drinks
Bartending dancers will focus on making and serving drinks. The sale of drinks is the most lucrative source of income for the club, so it is imperative that someone look after the bar.

The process is quite simple, the customer enters the club, orders a drink, finishes it. .. and leaves the empty glass behind. Wait a few hours and your entire club will be filled with empty glasses. To deal with this chaos, consider hiring a janitor. Leaving empty glasses around not only takes up space, it also makes everyone quite uncomfortable.

Although the bartending dancers are involved in the sale of drinks, the management of prices and supplies of the bar remains with the owner.

Every drink you make consumes the bar supplies needed to keep it running. Drinks cannot be sold when your club runs out of stock. It is advisable to order bar supplies in advance so that they can arrive the next day. Plus, fewer bar supplies means fewer drinks to make. Customers who cannot order what they want will be very unhappy with it.

You can order supplies by clicking on any panel to access the Order Supplies menu at the strip club. The items purchased are made up of the total number of items ordered, which will be delivered the next day around noon. The cost of deliveries depends on the base price of drinks ordered by customers. Selling expensive drinks requires buying expensive goods.

Selling drinks at a base price and buying consumables to replenish the bar is not the most profitable loop. As the owner, you must adjust the price markup of drinks so that every drink sold is profitable. While selling drinks at 100% markup sounds great, it will fail very quickly when customers are left with drinks they don't want.

High mark-ups and low bar costs make customers less likely to buy drinks. The scarcity of consumables means fewer drinks, and the increased price makes them less attractive to buy. When you can't sell a customer's favorite drinks, cut the markup to make other drinks an attractive proposition... at least until bar supplies arrive.

You can adjust the markup by clicking on any panel to access the Strip Club's Markup menu. Don't get frustrated with setting the markup as high as you want. If someone does not complain, what harm.

Strip clubs have a special feature that increases the number of drinks Sims can order from 4 to 39, including drinks made by Icemunmun . And if you use the real names of drinks from Basemental, it's completely compatible.

Charm and Dancing
Charm challenge dancers focus on finding clients who are interested in socializing or lap dancing. Lap dancing is the biggest source of income for dancers and the most popular role in the club. In most situations, an outgoing client will look for an available dancer and ask them to dance.

Lap dances are performed in manually assigned places. Appointment of lap dance seats is required for clients to request a private dance. Any seating chair, sofa, armchair or chair in a club can be designated as a lap dance seat.

Simply build a separate room, place a seat in it and click on it to designate a lap dance seat. Any client wishing to dance will use the designated areas to receive a lap dance. Please note that all seats designated as lap dance venues are used exclusively for lap dancing, so sitting or napping is not permitted.

When clients do not want to ask for a lap dance, the dancer must take the initiative. After greeting the client, 6 new charming social interactions become available. Using a charming interaction works like a romance without actually creating a romantic connection between the dancer and the client. Instead, Charming increases the level of Charm, which affects how much the customer likes the dancer and the club itself. The higher the charm, the higher the tip.

Charming clients influence every aspect of the club. High charm with a dancer not only increases the tips they receive. When a customer orders a drink, they are more willing to pay a higher price. And when a dancer fails to charm a client, he may not want to return to the club.

During the lap dance, the same rules apply as for the stage dance. The better the skills and relationship with the client, the higher the performance, which directly affects how much the dancer earns, in addition to the usual pay.

Technical Details

All Strip Club settings are found in the Nude Settings -> Strip Club Settings menu.

Dress Up After Dance setup is quite simple, after each dance the dancers dress up in their career if they are partially naked.

The "Personal Lap Dance Cheat" setting unlocks the ability to request a lap dance at any time as a club owner.

The Static Clients Count option allows you to override the number of clients that show up in your club on a regular basis. By default, the club is considered the most active from 7pm to 3am, but changing this setting will force customers to show up every hour. To disable this cheat, change the number back to 0 (zero).

The Dancer Profit Percentage parameter allows you to change the revenue share for each individual tip the dancer receives. After a client throws money at a dancer or a dancer gets paid for a lap dance, a portion of that profit goes directly to the club. If you don't want dancers to share their profits with the club, change this setting to 0%.

The Dancer Earning Multiplier allows you to change how much the dancer earns from tips and lap dance. Changing the value to "200" will double the profit, while changing the value to "50" will increase half the profit.

The Bar Multiplier setting allows you to change how much the bar earns from selling drinks. Changing the value to "200" will double the profit, while changing the value to "50" will increase half the profit.

The "Native Undressing Behavior" setting focuses on how dancers undress while dancing. By default, dancers follow special rules that prevent them from taking off their gloves, shoes, and socks while dancing. When this setting is enabled, dancers will follow the rules you set in Nude Settings -> Clothing Settings.

The option "Auto assign dancers' tasks" allows you to disable the ability of dancers to automatically change their tasks. When a dancer performs a task that is not needed in the current situation, they will change it automatically unless this setting is disabled.

Focused interactions with dancing objects, if disabled, will unlock all interactions that will be available on dancing poles, dancing spot markers, and circle dance seats. By default, this setting limits interactivity with these objects to dance-related actions.

Client Visit Limits, if disabled, allows all Sims in the world to visit the club regardless of their current relationship status. By default, Sims in established relationships are less likely to visit the strip club.


Why is the lot set to General?

To ensure maximum compatibility with the game, WickedWhim's custom business lots are specifically set to "Universal". Everything should work fine.

I don't want my dancers to tend the bar. Can I hire a bartender?

No, for maximum flexibility, dancers can also care for the bar, as some clubs around the world do just that. All you have to do to have a dedicated bartender is hire a dancer to do just that task.

Assign a bartender task to a dancer, he will remember it every time he works and change into something that looks like a bartender. Performed.

Would you like to take the place of an employee dancer for the bartender? Just use the ww.set_dancers_employee_limit cheat command to increase the number of dancers you can hire.

Technical limitations

It was originally intended to use the Business Management window/tab to manage the strip club, but its extremely limited implementation prevented this. Then the alternative was to completely get rid of it and make all business operations manageable from the phone.

The strip club is managed using the phone, but the "Business Management" window/tab appears with a warning not to use it, as a complete blockage was causing errors in the game. The way you own a business in the game does not provide any other solutions.

Music & DJs [Future]

Music is one of the most important aspects of dance, every move seems less impressive if it doesn't match the rhythm of your favorite song. Every dancer should have their favorite genre of music, which is directly related to the music the DJ is playing.

The dancers will come with their favorite genre of music, and when it is played by a DJ, the performance of the dance is greatly increased. Playing the wrong music, or no music at all, hinders the performance, which subsequently reduces the amount of advice the dancers receive.

Since DJs only come with a few types of music they can play, the plan is to increase that number and allow them to play all the music the game has to offer. This is necessary if you decide to replace the DJ with a stereo system and control it manually.

In addition, dancers should be able to make friends with the DJ and share their tips to improve their dance performance. Friendly DJs will play the right music for the dancers on stage and will work really hard to make sure they look good while dancing.

Impact, Events and Security [Future]

The current implementation of the strip club function is a baseline experience that aims to provide a club management environment. Starting a strip club is minor, except for the possible loss of money. Dancer employees still require the emotional response and job satisfaction features that can impact your business performance if you neglect your staff.

Running a business can be pretty boring, so adding random events and events should add more variety. Anxious and needy customers, emotional and confused dancers, random accidents, potential quarrels and fights, and other events that require the player's involvement. Each day of running a club will be unique in some way.

When a problem arrives, the best thing to do is to let security deal with it. The bouncer who manages the entrance and charges extra for entry, as well as the security guard who kicks the butt of troubled customers. Anyone who breaks the rules of the club will be met by security and the pavement in front of the club.

Lack of impact makes everyone in the club feel empty. To fill this void, a lasting result is required from visiting the club for the first time, from excessive drinking, from lap dancing or from interacting with charming dancers. Relationship modifiers, individual moods, and reputation changes will come into play after you spend time in the club.

Significant Career [Future]

The main focus of creating a Strip Club is to manage it. The purpose of this function is to create a club, hire dancers and respond to what is happening. Where it is possible to hire a playable sim as a dancer, dancer gameplay is not the most fun experience.

Creating a meaningful gaming career is a challenge in its own right, which is about presenting interesting missions, variety of options, and reasonably fun gameplay. The fact is that the job of a dancer is not very interesting, so turning it into a main function requires much more attention and planning.

When playing as a dancer, you will perform typical tasks that the owner orders you to perform. You are free to do whatever you want as any dancer, but club work is up to you. Perhaps the introduction of more tasks for dancers, but not the exact purpose of the strip club.

Customization [Future]

Managing a club that never gets better can get tedious, so introducing specialized perks that make things easier and better will change that. The higher the tip, the easier it is to satisfy customers, the lower the cost of bar supplies, the less cleaning or accidents. There are many things that can make running your club easier.

The identity of your club should depend not only on the outside, but also on the rules that prevail inside. Defining the rules of your business will allow you to change its atmosphere and character. Maybe you want to require an entry fee, maybe you expect every customer to pay for at least one drink, maybe you have a very strict "do not touch" policy, or you don't want the dancers to talk to anyone and just offer dancing. Being able to manage your business is very important.

Striptease lesson: how to make a spicy gift - Relationships

Striptease as a gift is controversial. Someone will be delighted with such a present, and someone will be shocked. Experts told which men would appreciate a spicy gift, and also gave advice and basic lessons on how to prepare a private dance on your own and how to create an appropriate atmosphere for home striptease.

From Western films, we clearly understood - a striptease as a gift will please any man. Yes, and a woman, if we are talking about a private dance, performed by a man. Ladies even take strip dancing lessons themselves to surprise their beloved at home, and expect such a foreplay to be appreciated and received with gratitude. But in real life is not so clear cut.

It turns out that some people don't want to receive street music as a present, and it doesn't matter who will perform it. Especially if outsiders are present during the dance. Psychologists warn that a stripper is a gift to a man who experiences any kind of sexual complex. sphere, will only remind him of the problem. Therefore, it is important to consider who and in what situation to do such a gift.

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humiliated. It can cause shame, embarrassment if it happens in public, kill holiday mood. Therefore, a woman must find out in advance what will be reaction. If a couple can visit a strip club together and freely discuss such topics, then perhaps the gift will be received positively,” says the head of the psychotherapeutic department of the clinic "Insight" Igor Lyakh (Novosibirsk).

Give a striptease to a boss, colleague or business partner — unacceptable, etiquette specialist Evgenia Skiba (Barnaul) is sure. "In business situations, most people behave with restraint. This is allowed in some creative company. Among people who are merry and jokers in life. They can recognize by behavior, manner brightly, look unusual. They do it themselves such gifts, and appreciate if they are congratulated by a stripper, ”explains expert. Housewives and sportswomen: who learns striptease

Professional dancer and owner of a striptease agency Alexei Zhorkin from his own experience confidently declares that most of the orders are just the same as gifts. Of these, a lot for the boss of any gender. Strippers and strippers are often invited to February 23, March 8, hen parties, stag parties, birthdays, and once, in his memory, they ordered for a wedding.

“There is a negative reaction. The husband begins to be shy, because he does not know how his wife will react if behave uninhibited with the artist. Therefore, we ask that they break through the soil in advance. Or we ask you to leave the room so that they do not embarrass you with your presence. It happens that the people themselves, to whom they give, are asked to stop the dance. This was at a bachelorette party with a very moral bride. In this case, the artist can continue the dance for the public. But more often the reaction is good,” says Zhorkin.

A good number of couples believe that the teasing dance able to increase the degree of passion and diversify routine family life. But also here experts advise to approach carefully, and take into account the many factors: from the situation, the occasion to the current state of the relationship. The last one is perhaps the most important.

“There are troubles in family relationships — routine, ritual, adaptation. When a married couple begins to limit fantasies about each other, then such an important part of sexuality as flirting disappears. Many industries exist for due to the fact that this flirting is provided, for example, by Internet dating. That's why many women at one time were so carried away by half-dance that in their relationship novelty, mystery appeared, things connected with fantasy appeared. Usually it strengthens the couple, ”Lyakh believes.

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flirting, then the reaction to the striptease of the wife or girl is likely to be positive, and she will achieve the desired effect. And if such an important component is no longer there, a woman runs the risk of causing discontent or other negative emotions that before this was restrained, the psychologist warns.

As strip dance choreographer Marina Ignatenko said, most often women apply for lessons when they find out that a man is looking "on the side" or go to strip bars. And then, having learned the strip, they draw attention to myself.

“A woman becomes more self-confident, her gait becomes more graceful. A woman begins to change from the inside, they begin to look at her differently, her man feels it, thinks what has changed in her and thinks about her, the choreographer says.

If you want to dance a striptease, she advises you to take at least a few lessons dancers to master the basic set of movements, and then act with an eye on their own opportunities and benefits. So, if a girl has flexibility, then be sure use twine and braces. And if a woman has long beautiful hair, then dance it out.

In general, the basic set of strip dance elements is simple - "kitty", backbends, stretching, half twine (twine for those who can afford it), half-bridge, touching yourself. Basically, almost anyone can do it.

But we must remember that home striptease is a small show, therefore, appropriate attire is important (you can buy a role-playing costume in a sex shop or just put on a beautiful set of underwear and stockings), manicure, pedicure, makeup, hairstyle.

Especially for readers, the choreographer told how to prepare for home striptease on her own, and showed the basic movements. We start with a warm-up and train plasticity.

According to Ignatenko, striptease is impossible without heels. Ideally, you need to stand on strips - shoes with a platform that professional women use. If there are no similar shoes and you don’t want to buy specially, you can do without a platform, but heels are required, and as high as possible.

At home, there is usually no stage or pole. But there are always walls and floors, the use of which will also help to hide the lack of physical fitness. A well-warmed body, practiced movements and personal imagination are the main components of a beautiful home dance.

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