How to dance for my husband in bed

How To Do A Sexy Lap Dance

In marriage, it can be easy to get bored with the intimate side of our relationship. We need to find ways constantly to keep things new and fresh. Being able to relax and enjoy ourselves in the bedroom makes for a more enjoyable relationship all around. While there are lots of different ways to keep things fresh in the bedroom, the one that we will explore today is a sexy lap dance! 

Confidence is Key

Confidence is sexy. So, whatever you’re doing, do it confidently! No matter how silly you may feel, be confident, and that will translate to your spouse. Be creative, but if being creative is too hard, turn to someone to be creative for you! For instance, on our app we have tons of different date ideas and even bedroom games, as do Keelie and Austin from Love Hope Adventure. Find something fun to do, and then do it with confidence!

The lap dance is one of those things that you just need to be sure to do confidently. It can feel a little awkward at first, and you may not know exactly what to do. Perhaps you just really haven’t ever seen a sexy lap dance given, and don’t know where to even start. But a lap dance is something that can bring fire into the bedroom and your relationship. Keelie and Austin are so amazing that they gave us some steps and ideas on how to make this sexy lap dance happen!

Getting Ready

There are a few things you want to have ready before you jump into your sexy lap dance. Think about where in your home is the best and most appropriate place for you to give this sexy lap dance and set the mood. Consider making some low lighting with candles, a bedside lamp, or white Christmas lights. Grab a soft blanket to lay on the chair you use for the lap dance to make it nice and cozy. Maybe spritz a little bit of your favorite perfume around the room or burn a nice smelling candle to add to the ambiance. 

Make sure you find something good to wear. You want to feel confident in whatever outfit you choose. Being able to move around in the outfit you choose is going to be extremely important. You may want to wear some lingerie or just a sexy outfit. Maybe there is something that your spouse absolutely loves to see you in, that could be the perfect outfit for this sexy lap dance. Move around a little in the outfit you choose before bringing your spouse in to make sure that it is going to work and make any necessary changes ahead of time. 

Step 1: Get A Chair

The first step and tip that Keelie gave us was to grab a chair. Get something that you can work with. Try to make sure it doesn’t have any arms, doesn’t rock, and preferably doesn’t have wheels either. A simple chair is best here as it will allow you to move around it and be able to touch your spouse from every angle. 

Check the height of the chair ahead of time to be sure that it’s not too tall and not too short. Depending on who is giving the lap dance, you may need a different chair, and that is just fine. Just know what’s going to work the best for you, and have it ready to go for your sexy lap dance. Getting into it, you definitely want to be prepared and keep the equipment simple. So don’t try to make it too crazy! 

Step 2: Pick A Song

You’ve got to have music on to give a proper lap dance, of course! Pick something you like, something that you can easily move to. Try not to make the song too fast or too slow. You will naturally move to the beat and tempo of the music. It works the same as running music- you match the pace of the song you are listening to. If it is too fast, you will be bouncing around and this can kill the mood. Too slow and you will start moving too slow as well, which can just get annoying. 

Make sure that whatever you choose isn’t something you will feel the need to sing along to. Singing along to a song is something else that can quickly kill the mood. There are times when singing can add to the experience, but for the most part, you will want to avoid this so as to not make your lap dance less sexy.

Step 3: Start Behind Them

Start behind your spouse! Starting in the back will give you an advantage and time to get warmed up. You can start to feel good about the moves you’re doing and test out a few things without any eyes on you. Get going and make sure you feel good about what you’re doing and how you’re moving before making your way to the front of the chair. 

Be sure to be touching your spouse while you are warming up behind them. They will love this! Your warm up is a teaser for them, starting to get them very excited for when you make your way around to the front. Be super hands on. You will start to feel from them the things you are doing that they really like, and be able to have that influence the moves you do as you continue your lap dance. 

Step 4: Walk Around Slowly

Slow and steady wins the race when it comes to a lap dance. Take your time working around the sides of the chair and your spouse and hang out there for a minute, letting your spouse enjoy you being next to them. Be hands on here again and really give them something to look forward to as you work your way around the chair. Finally, come on around to the front of the chair. This is when things really start to get spicy! 

Whatever you do doesn’t have to look sexy in your mind. At this point, your spouse is just simply going to be floored that you are even doing this for them. They won’t care if you look super sexy at that moment. They just love that you are trying this out! Again, remember, confidence is sexy. So whatever you do, just do it confidently!

Step 5: Basic Moves

There are a few basic moves that comprise any sexy lap dance. Try a few of them out to make sure things go smoothly and you’re both enjoying yourselves!

  • Bend over in front of your spouse
  • Lean into your spouse
  • Lean away from your spouse 
  • Give your spouse a good rub down (not necessarily just with your hands ;))
  • Kiss your spouse all over 

Try out these moves and any others you would like to experiment with. Get creative. You never know what will feel good to you and what will help your spouse really enjoy the lap dance you’re working so hard to give them.  

Fun For All

Something that is super great about this, is that sexy lap dances do not have to be performed solely by the woman in the relationship. It is just as much fun for the man to perform the lap dance for his wife, and the wife will absolutely love it! So don’t be afraid to both try out these steps. Get creative with it. Once you’re feeling a little more comfortable with your lap dance, start adding in a few things that fit with your personality. Make it individual, unique. After all, this is a lap dance that only you can give!

Perhaps you will want to consider practicing ahead of time. You have all the steps now to make a great lap dance, but if you’ve never tried it, you may feel extra awkward in the moment. Take some time to try out any moves you think could be fun around the chair you pick in your sexy outfit or lingerie. And when it is time to do this with your spouse, take control of the moment. You’re in charge of where they sit, what you do, and for how long it goes. Enjoy this power and use it well!

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Keelie and Austin Reason are the wonderful couple who gave us these tips today on how to do a sexy lap dance. They run a great company called Love Hope Adventure. You can check them out here for more tips and tricks, date ideas, and more:

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How To Dance For Man In The Bedroom Inspired By Ciara

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Posted May 17, 2013


Shamika Sanders is the managing editor for HelloBeautiful where she carries out a vision to uplift Black women by telling their unique stories. She began working at iOneDigital in 2011 and has penned articles for iOneDigital, Essence, Billboard, and has interviewed celebrities like Oprah, Viola Davis, Denzel Washington, and Regina King. Shamika is a seasoned reporter with over 10 years of experience in digital media. She is the mother of an adorable two-year-old, enjoys spending time with her friends and family, enjoys good music, and good eats. Keep up with her on social media. @shamika_sanders

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There’s something so intimate and sexy about dancing for your man. Staring in his eyes while you contort your body in sensual positions always sends shivers down their spine. Ciara has become the poster woman for steamy choreography. Her video “Body Party” is like an instructional for performing the act.

We’ve looked to Cici to help us put together a list of dance moves to incorporate into your next routine! You can find them in her videos “Promise,” “Body Party,” “Love, Sex & Magic,” and “Ride.”

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The Body Roll


Create an S-form with your body by rolling it like Ciara in her video “Promise.”

2. The Strip Tease


Tease him with your naked body, but don’t give too much away!

3. Utilitize props


Using a chair in your routine adds variety. Use it to show off the arch in your back. High heels help the legs look elongated.

4. Tricks


Putting things between your legs can be tricky, but this trick by Jamie Lee Curtis (borrowed by CiCi) in “True Lies” is a classic move and will impress him!

5. The Big Reveal


Surprise him and reveal your lingerie underneath your robe.




No dance is complete without the sexy crawl. It ill make him feel dominant!

7. Touch


Don’t be afraid to touch your man during your dance. Get close enough to him and entice him with your girl assets.

8. Use different angles


Ciara had the right idea when she gave Future a different angle of her back then breast.

9. A leg up on the competition


Allow him to feel and explore the length of your body by dancing from the tip of your toes to the reach of your lips!

10. Hip movement


No dance is complete without gyrating hip movement. As R.Kelly would say, “Move ya body like a snake ma!”

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On the International Dance Day, Gazeta. Ru finds out how a man should move in order to arouse the wildest desires in women.

British scientists… no, this time really British, no kidding, from Northumbria University (Northumbria University) finally did something useful and conducted a massive scientific study about what a woman pays attention to when she is watching a dancing man, and what feelings it causes in her.

In order not to distract the ladies with the appearance of a man, what he is wearing, how he is cut, how he smells and how he looks at her (of course, British scientists have separate scientific studies about all this), the experimental men were forced to dance for hours to the same music, having previously dressed in special costumes that were used during the filming of the film "Avatar". The clothes stitched with sensors caught all male movements, thanks to which a 3D model of a dancer without taste, without color, without smell was subsequently created. All facial features and features of the figure were erased. There is only one solid body left.

The clip of these dubious dances was then shown to women of various ages, incomes, and beliefs, as well as to a control group of women who were not told at all what the purpose of the study was. In general, the only thing the ladies had in common was gender and traditional sexual orientation.

And what turned out? It turns out that the vast majority of ladies react at the sight of men's dances to exactly the same thing. Exactly the same movements women find sexually attractive or repulsive. The topic of the study, and in fact it, of course, sounds like this: “How to behave so that women want to have sex with you”, for obvious reasons, turned out to be so important that several more elite universities joined the scientific search for an answer to this question, including Columbia University in the USA.

So, this is what the scientists found out:

1. Women love it when a man wiggles his hips, spreading them wider

with which the man is dancing. The faster the better. Moreover, the speed of the melody does not matter

4. Women like sudden movements. They associate them with passion

5. Women like smooth movements less

For some reason, they especially pay attention to how the right male knee moves. For special satisfaction, the knee must move quickly

7. And the knees must be bent almost all the time

8. The less a man moves his arms, the better


10. And the arms should not be tense - this is very repulsive to a woman

11. There should be as many neck movements as possible

A man should look confident

14. But the main thing is that a man should just dance

15. It doesn't matter how. Although no, sorry, correlation, scientists between these facts have not yet been revealed, women, to spite them, still believe that men who dance are more skillfully engaged in sex than those who refuse to do so. So dance to spite everyone!

How to learn erotic dance. How to lap dance for my husband

Erotic dance - the art of seducing a man

What man, not seeing an attractive girl on the street, doesn't begin to undress this divine creature?!

For a man, the process of undressing women is a real surge of emotions, it is a new world, shrouded in mystery and passion. Which of us does not dream of a passionate night, of that moment when love and elements unite together, which are sometimes beyond the control of the human brain.

Our bedroom is a place of mystery and a place of passion. This is the place where all vital problems are solved.

Having received our portion of pleasure, we will be full of strength and energy, we will rejoice even on a cloudy day.

Power of sorcery

The bedroom is the keeper of our secrets. Miracles happen in this room and our sex life is transformed.

One of the stages of learning the mystery is erotic dance . He has been assigned one of the leading roles.

You have been waiting for this night for so long, and now a miracle has happened, the person whom you consider the object of your love is next to you. The dream came true. Now the main thing is to captivate your partner with an interesting game. He is waiting and hoping that you will give him those unforgettable moments that he will keep in his memory for a long time.

You should try to be seductive, to show by your temptation that you are the woman that he needs so much in life.

And for this a woman has to put in a lot of effort. She must show her skill and her inspiration in this difficult science called "witchcraft". You must be able to make sensual movements and must put all your power of seduction into them.

The science of winning

You don't have to learn how to dance Gogo or New Burlesque. But to have the simplest basics of seduction is your duty.

You should not confuse "house" striptease with Gogo or New Burlesque dance. "Easily put on" Gogos can only fire up the audience, and your task is much more difficult. You need to get your partner to come to the point where he loses control of himself.

On this night, all means of struggle are good, as long as the woman feels like a winner, and the winners are not judged, they are admired.

Perseverance and labor

Everyone knows that persistence and hard work always lead to the desired results.

No worries. You have seen more than one movie that made you admire the female erotic dance. You haven't lost everything yet. Each of you can learn this craft. In almost every city there are all sorts of courses where you will be taught the important moves of seduction. If you live in a small town, don't despair. There is a mirror in front of you… Train, dance. This is very useful, as the process of dancing burns calories. You will learn not only to dance and seduce a man, but also to declare war on excess weight.

However, you need to understand that after five or six hours of training you will not become a master. This is hard work and you need to endure it, master it, if you want to bewitch a man. Nothing happens without difficulty, and no one will bring your happiness to you on a silver platter. Try to master at least the elementary art of erotic dance. This art can bring freshness to a relationship with a loved one.

Preparatory process

Remember that erotic dance is the true art of seduction. Those women who can dance, they are more likely to captivate a man.

You must learn to move freely and sexually, you must learn to make your body supple and graceful. Having mastered the dance moves, you will be able to create your own improvisations to any music.

Under the chords of relaxing music, you just want to dissolve in the sounds of a melody next to your loved one. The body becomes beyond our control and begins to move plastically, smoothly, slowly, like the body of a panther or a cat.

You need to learn how to move from smooth music to rhythmic music. You should learn to make clear and sharp turns, it would be nice to learn to “own” some parts of the body: arms, hips, head, stomach.

You must impress your loved one, you must be different from his previous woman.

It makes sense to learn a little choreography and hone your skills to impress your loved one.

First of all, it is important to create a pleasant atmosphere. This is the atmosphere in which you will feel confident and at the same time relaxed. You should let your loved one know in advance that tonight will be a special evening, completely different from previous evenings.


Before you start erotic dances, you can pamper and relax your one and only in the bath, you can gently wipe his body with a towel, slowly describing each fold of the body, while whispering tender and affectionate words in his ear.

You must set your partner in a lyrical way in advance. He should be ready for the fact that you will surprise him with your originality and originality.

Basic golden rules

Before you conquer your one and only trade as a beginner stripper, don't forget about the correct timing. Meet him after work at the door of your apartment with a gentle and affectionate face and do not forget to say a compliment.

Make sure that the apartment has a pleasant, relaxing atmosphere. Cheer him up, let him feel that you need him, and that he is the most desirable and most beloved man for you.

Try to "turn" his head with the help of the dance. Let him feel that this erotic dance is for him, and only for him.

Don't forget to cast dance looks at your loved one while dancing. It's no secret that your eyes and your movements can say much more than words. Take advantage of this opportunity.

Try to undress slowly and with pleasure. You should see a fire in his eyes, which, igniting every minute, can turn into a flame.

Do not forget to involve your partner in an erotic dance. He will be grateful to you for this.

The ability to control one's body makes a person more confident and free, which undoubtedly helps in many life situations. In dance, a woman feels her strength, her grace and her perfection. Remember that the application of the acquired skills depends on your female fantasy and your inspiration.

Who will help a woman seduce a man , showing his sexuality. To look more sexy and seductive, during the dance try to periodically look into the man's eyes, but it should be natural and in no case should you constantly "stare" at him. When dancing, try to let him know that you are dancing with him and that he is not like everyone else.

To make a man guess that you like him during slow dance you can put your arm around his neck, but it should not look vulgar or overtly sexy. Also, when you slow dance, you can turn your head to the side and get a little closer to him, so he will feel the captivating aroma of your perfume, which will help awaken desire and interest in everyone in you.

To seduce man dancing your appearance is very important. The most important thing is that while touching you, he does not feel discomfort. Therefore, there should not be any varnish on the hair, cosmetics should be used very competently, to a minimum, "Amazon war paint" is categorically unacceptable. You should also pay special attention to your wardrobe. Your clothes should be soft and pleasant to the touch. play a very important role, so when a man touches you, you must do everything so that he wants to repeat his touches.

If a man behaves passively, then you should tickle his feelings a little with some sexy ones. For example, straighten your hair and, as if by chance, run your hand over your knee. If, in addition, there is a romantic atmosphere around - pleasant music plays and soft lighting is on, then your efforts will soon be rewarded and the man will succumb to your charms.

But don't forget that you have to be on the lookout and watch the guy's reactions. Flirting with him in the dance, touching him, you get into his intimate space and this man understands that you want something. Here it is important that he understands correctly what you really want. The main thing for you is that he feels the warmth emanating from you and wants to shorten the distance between you, spend his time and energy on you. But if you put too much pressure on him with your charms, then he may perceive your desire as a hint of a quick transition to, bypassing the bouquet-candy period of courtship. Therefore, if a man behaves actively, then seduce his touches should be kept to a minimum.

I would also like to note that it is welcome if in your evening wardrobe for dancing will be all sorts of accessories. It can be elegant earrings, beautiful beads or a bracelet. Such little things will give you extra charm and show your personality.

Do you know that the erotic, seductive dance of your beloved is one of the ten erotic fantasies of the stronger sex? So why not pamper your loved one? Therefore, today the site will delight you with information on how to arrange an amazing one.

Let's start with the fact that down with all the complexes, you do not have to weigh 48 kilograms, and pose with a glass of champagne, wearing only a huge red bow on your chest. Here, the main thing is to remain yourself, but you simply have to move beautifully and undress excitingly.


The eyes can say a lot. When dancing for your loved one, try to look into his eyes. Your look should be playful, voluptuous, a little seductive, saying how you want it, but not dreary, expressing: "I'm already tired of squirming!". The dance itself should give you pleasure. Slowly look away, and then sharply return it to the eyes of your lover, such a maneuver is very enchanting.


One of the important things is refreshment. And it is better if the lighting is subdued, turn on the sconces, or better, light a few candles. The game of shadows will add mystery, and you will feel more relaxed. And if during your speech you were seized by shyness, call on your sense of humor to help, a joke will always defuse the situation.


You need to dance in the “right” clothes, which you can easily take off without getting confused with numerous buttons. The classic of the genre is a men's jacket with a tie on a naked body, or a men's shirt, thongs, stockings and high-heeled shoes. Entering the image, do not rush to quickly pull everything off yourself, the movements should be slow and tempting and not necessarily completely naked. It turns out that naked ladies are only 40% more exciting than men, this is what inflames their imagination, and what's behind the "frame".


The working tool of a real dancer is a pole, but as such, it is not found in the apartment. But for sure there is a chair with a high back. Turn it back to your partner and slowly lower yourself into the seat, showing off your legs. The next chic maneuver, holding on to the back of a chair, smoothly bend in the lower back, showing the buttocks ... No chair? It's not scary, you can dance in the doorway, leaning against the jamb with your back and bending, and sliding your buttocks over it. After that, you can kneel down... and then only your imagination... Most importantly, your movements should be natural, slow and seductive!


Of course, music, without it lap dance impossible. Choose the one that you both like. And if you like pop and your partner can't stand it, it's best to look for a compromise. By the way, your movements should be in time with the music. And they can be different: smooth, sensual and slow, sharp and fast. Do not forget that your goal is to tease and intrigue, so in the process of dancing you not only get rid of clothes, but also stroke yourself in the most seductive places: breasts, hips, stomach.


No comment, a beautiful seductive dance intrigues and fascinates, but don't overdo it, five to seven minutes is enough. After all, your goal, unlike real strippers, is not just to give pleasure to the dance, but also to drag him into bed, isn't it ...?

Pearl bracelets can also serve as decoration during the dance. Which have always adorned a woman. The man will be amazed by your serious approach and will be in your hands. Don't miss the moment, order now.

Year after year, many girls and women ask themselves the question: what to give a loved one?

Some do not want to deviate from stereotypes, and without thinking twice, they buy something necessary for everyday life or for personal hygiene.

For example: screwdriver set, cologne, razors and more. But, if you want to make an unforgettable gift to your loved one, then we will help you in this choice - an erotic dance as a gift for a man will be a great option!

The most original gift

What kind of gift can surprise a man? It must be original, enchanting and, most importantly, sexy. The most suitable choice is erotic dance. To do this, you need to follow a plan for its preparation.

First of all, you need to acquire skills in the field of erotic dance.

  1. To do this, you can sign up for strip plastic lessons, where professional choreographers will teach you the art of undressing sexually to the music. But I warn you, such activities at this stage of life are not cheap! Therefore, there is an option to download online strip dance lessons or watch a number of videos on this topic.
  2. If you calculate your figure is not ideal, then you can visit strip aerobics. This is a great way to tighten your forms, as well as become more flexible and plastic.
  3. Of course, no one canceled self-improvement. You will have to take some time to get to know the capabilities of your body and prepare a series of clear movements. But, in no case do not prepare a clearly choreographed dance, because in a sexual gift for a man there must be improvisation in order to give free rein to your feelings. And also be sure to spend some time in front of the mirror to hone facial expressions.

If you decide to give a man an erotic dance, pay more attention to the beauty of your body, and not the correctness of the movements, because in front of you is your beloved man, not a choreographer.


For your unforgettable surprise, your loved one needs to prepare a place where, in fact, everything will take place. Be sure the room should be twilight and candles to create an intimate atmosphere. You can still use an aroma lamp, but after consulting with experts in choosing the oils used.

If you are embarrassed, due to lack of experience, in speaking in front of an audience, try to illuminate the place of your performance more brightly, but at the same time darken the place where the hero of the occasion will be, so as not to see his face.
Some women say that in the first minutes of an erotic dance for a man, they did not know where to put their hands, so you can use additional items, such as a hat, scarf, chair, etc.


To make your gift sexier, opt for well-fitting and flattering lingerie.

A more suitable color for this kind of dance is red. Many scientists consider it the most exciting.


For erotic dance, choose the music that touches your feelings and awakens in you a passionate desire to dance.

Of course, it is better if it is a slow composition, preferably one with which you and your loved one have positive memories.

Charming look

The guarantee that your erotic dance for a man will go with a bang is your look. Do not look at the wallpaper or at the ceiling. Look only into the eyes of your partner, without looking away!

The finishing touch

To set the man right before your surprise, or take a bath with rose petals and wine together. This will set it in the right direction.

Do not be afraid to be sexy, because in front of you is your loved one who loves you. Be sure - your man will appreciate such an extravagant gift!

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For the man you love, you can cook a delicious dinner, light candles, on the table - a crimson tablecloth, two glasses on a high stem filled with Laurent-Perrier wine (it is possible for others, it is not so important).
And you can add something else to all this!

You apply a pleasant, sophisticated fragrance on your body, wear beautiful underwear in red tones, stockings, high heels (this is a must) and above... One detail is important here. You don’t have to wear an evening dress, but you need to wear something so that there is more to shoot. The bigger, the better. For example, a revealing blouse and skirt.
Why? But for what - you will dance a striptease. Yes yes exactly!
But just let it be unexpected for him.

And here comes the beloved…
You put him on a chair and turn on the music (for example, Clara Morgane feat. Six Coups Mc - Strip tease).
Important: Dear, beloved and dear, you must warn that you must not be touched! You can't and that's it!

So... let's go...
Stand in front of him and begin to move slowly to the beat of the music. The emphasis is on the hips. Their movements should be rhythmic, in time with the music. You look at yourself and caress yourself with your hands, along the body, along the clothes. Swipe the back of your hand over your face, across your chest and further down, like your hand is an autumn leaf that has fallen from a tree and falls down. The movements must be very smooth. Then slowly take off your blouse and throw it on the floor. While looking at him.
Then you turn your back to him, and take off your skirt, teasing with your ass. You twist it, move it, stroke it. In general, anything, but the most exciting.
Then come to the chair on which sits this charming creature - your beloved man. Put one leg between his legs, and throw the other on his shoulder. (Just don't say that this action is not possible. If this is not possible for you, the gym and other institutions cry for you. They are waiting for you). Now you need to slightly cuddle up to him, and just rub a little. You can't touch! Don't give it to him. (Hit your hands a little. Well, or ... you better know how to deal with your man).
Then sit on it and start moving your hips, leaning back a little. Touch him: stroke his face, lips, nose with your finger. Run your hands through your hair. Then touch your lips to his lips, but do not kiss! Now you are just teasing him, warming him up. Then let your chest touch his lips, but immediately lean back.
Next, stand up, turn around. Sit on your man with your back to him and move as if you are making love to him, but very, very smoothly.
And get up again, move away from him, turn your back to him, wrap your arms around yourself and sway from side to side to the beat of the music. It looks very impressive if the hair is long. (If the hair is not long, it must be grown. Men like long hair. Most of them). Then unfasten the fastener on the bra.
Unbuttoned? Wonderful. And now it is very important to remove it correctly! First remove one strap, then the other. And throw the bra at his feet.
And now, ladies, let's take off our panties!
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